Thursday, April 23, 2009

When It Dries (Two By Two)

Something funny is going on where Languages Boy is concerned.  I've only seen him once in the last two weeks, and it's not because I've been avoiding him.  I was home for Easter for a few days, a couple of weeks back, and then when I got back our timing was always off.  I met with him for lunch on Sunday, and I haven't seen him since.  He spends a lot of time at home now.  He used to always come downtown to see me and sleep over.  He also used to text me every morning and every night, but now I always have to be the one to initiate the text.  How have the tables turned?  Why is he making himself unavailable?  Why is it making me want to see him now?  Do these games really work?  Worst yet - do they work on me?  I never thought they would.  I don't actually think he's playing games.  I don't know what to think.  All I know is I still want to either break things off or just date casually while seeing other people, but I need to see him in person to tell him that and that doesn't seem to be happening!  I have his cardigan.  That's the real issue here.  I need to give it back to him before I can feel comfortable parting ways.


Neenia said...

Shame. I had high hopes for Languages Boy. You could just keep the cardigan, if he doesn't seem too concerned about it. Only if it's nice though.

warriorprincesse said...

listen, don't be a baby, if you want to see him more, let him know. Just be honest. You might get hurt, but isn't that better than the torture of suspense and lack of understanding the situation?

I'm sure it's just situational and nothing is really wrong. Talk to him.

artsmonkey said...

balls to him. being forward is so gd impossible. and the cardigan - you don't care about the cardigan. you just want to see him again. don't lie.